SPIRITUAL GROWTH GROUPS

HOW TO SG2?

SG2  Basics

Two or three men or two or three women get together once a week to discuss the past week's Bible readings, pray, and encourage each other in regard to their walk with God.

Personal Time Commitment

1. Daily prayer

2. Approximately five minutes of Bible reading five days a week

3. A one-hour meeting per week to discuss Bible readings, accountability questions, and prayer

Facilitators

Each SG2 is composed of two or three individuals of the same sex. One person in the group should be the facilitator. The facilitator starts a group by inviting one or two people to be a part of her/his group. He or she also keeps the group on track. The other person or persons are referred to as participants. Everyone in the group is considered a member.

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The facilitator organizes the meetings and leads the discussions. An essential responsibility of the facilitator is to make sure that the group stays on task during weekly meetings. 

Meetings

Meetings can take place in-person or via a video conferencing product such as Zoom or WebEx. Meetings work best in-person, but video conferencing is a good alternative. These types of groups lose their effectiveness, however, if they are conducted over the phone. I have found that being able to see each other is important for making connections and maintaining accountability.

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The meeting starts with a brief discussion of the previous week's Bible reading.  The facilitator asks how the discipline of reading Scripture went for the participants that week. He or she also shares about how they did in accomplishing their Bible reading for the week.

A discussion about what they learned from the readings should also be a part of this dialogue. It is important to note, however, that this part of the meeting is not designed to encourage debate over controversial issues in Christianity or to explain difficult theological concepts. This is not a Bible study. Its main purpose is to encourage each other to read the Bible regularly and to get members thinking about how the weekly readings connect with their own lives. Members should contemplate questions such as: What are the personal applications that can be gleaned from the reading? What is God trying to teach us in this passage?

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The central part of the meeting is dedicated to character building.  The facilitator should therefore lead the participants through the accountability questions. The facilitator can encourage open sharing by initiating the self-disclosure process. I provide more information about this process and offer helpful tips for facilitators in the SG2 tutorial.

Length

Once launched an SG2 will meet weekly for three months, after which time the members will select one of four options:

1. Participants can become a facilitator and lead their own group.

2. The group members will join a different SG2. 

3. The group will continue as it is for another three months.

4. The members will take a break from SG2.

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My experience with Spiritual Growth Groups is that they have a natural lifespan. Members find them helpful and encouraging for about a year, after which time the group either concludes or the members grow a deeper level of trust with each other. In this latter case, spiritual growth and accountability become a more natural part of the relationship between the members and less structure in the meeting is necessary. In such situations the SG2 can continue for an indefinite period of time.

Limitations

An SG2 is not a replacement for a church small group or community service team. An SG2 takes place in a short, focused meeting dedicated primarily to personal accountability. Small talk and the discussion of work issues or church events is natural, but it is critical that facilitators defer these topics to the end of the meeting.

This is going to be one of the most difficult tasks of the group--staying focused. However, this is essential to the mission and purpose of the SG2. If members use the weekly meetings merely to talk about hobby issues or news stories, then the spiritual formation goal of the group will be compromised and the members will eventually become disappointed with their spiritual progress and give up.  While the detailed structure presented on this website may seem unnatural to some members, following the suggested guidelines provided here does pay off spiritually. And once your group has strengthened and matured, less structure will be needed.